For the past 8 years, I have lived outside Mexico and travelled to different continents to see “the world out there”. From Europe to South America and the Caribbean, I have seen outstandingly beautiful places and eaten the most exquisite dishes. However, all this time spent abroad grew in me the wish to get to know my own country – a place I barely knew. I remember meeting people from all over the world who happened to have visited Mexico and realized, to my shame, that they knew more about my own homeland than I did. So, last year I decided it was the right time for me to go back and to explore the country where I was born, but this time from a new perspective.
Earlier last year I moved to Mexico City and started a new life. It was a personal challenge I was ready to abandon because I had a misconception about this city. I could not imagine that that was my own perception of how foreigners felt about visiting my country.
The capital city is a large, cosmopolitan and crazy place for outsiders. People do not believe me when I tell them I was scared to come here. Some of my friends were like “Come on Alicia, you have traveled to so many places on your own and lived abroad for so many years; Mexico should be a piece of cake for you”. And they were right, I have been to so many places, I speak several foreign languages, I am a very outgoing person, very independent… However, Mexico really freaked me out.
I think that when people travel and live abroad something strange happens to us. We become much more adaptable, we are open to new adventures, we try almost everything, we explore the place, we wander… It’s as if we want to see as much as we can of that other country – but this does not happen when you are “home”.
Plus – in my defence – as a provincial girl who had never visited Mexico City before, it was a big shock. Even though it is my country and we speak the same language, there is a big gap between “capitalinos” (people from the capital) and the rest of us; the truth is we are all different. It took me several months to adapt to this boisterous city and its people but once you pass that first stage, Mexico can get you hooked.
For the past year I have traveled to different states within Mexico, I have (re)learned about Mexican roots, customs, cuisine and I have discovered so many beautiful places to visit. I have also (re)learned about how to remain safe while in Mexico because, whether I like it or not, Mexico still is a bit dangerous – especially when you are an outsider.
I will suggest for every person who is visiting my lovely country to squeeze the very last drop out of it but to always be safe. Just as in any other country there are some neighborhoods to avoid, certain hours to preferably take a cab instead of walking, etc.
Mexico as a whole is developing very fast. Back in the day we did not have as many options as we do now. For instance, in 2008 traveling by plane was still a luxury just a few could afford. Now there are many low cost airlines (such as Interjet, Volaris, Vivaaerobus) that can take you from Mexico City to Guadalajara for as low as 700 pesos (35USD) one-way. We also have a very large network of buses that can take you as far as you want from the Peninsula of Yucatan to the United States. You can also rent a car and drive around – my suggestion here is just be careful. Mexicans drive crazily and it is easy to get lost on the roads, but on the positive end the landscapes are amazing.
I believe Mexico has a lot to offer for every taste. You can find beautiful colonial cities, crystal-watered beaches, astonishing mountain ranges, wild rainforest, majestic ruins and so much more! Try to ask locals for places to go, where to eat, what to do, etc – they are the best guides.
From my own experience, I think that Mexico should be in every bucket list. Its people are so welcoming and helpful that I am sure you will come back!
All photos by Alicia Aguilar.
This article is part of our AT HOME series featuring stories from and about the meaning of ‘home’.
This is a guest post by Alicia Aguilar.
Alicia was born in Jalisco; she has been living in Mexico City since last year. She is an avid traveler; she loves foreign cultures, languages, photography, good food and swimming. She loves to share her passion for adventure and the discovery of the “unknown” through photographs – follow her on Instagram @tysh64!
I'm glad you decided to go back and so happy for you that you've discovered new things about your home! Your pictures are stunning and I'd love to visit Mexico one day.
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Thank you Charmaine for your feedback! I'm glad also to be back. I think it is important to discover not only what surround us but also what we have inside (our roots, feelings, etc) You should absolutely come visit Mexico some day :)
This is such a beautiful article! I absolutely agree; after finishing school I only wanted out and started to travel a lot. Then I started meeting people all over the world who told me about their travels to my home country and I could hardly believe how enthusiastic they were. Sometimes it's really hard to appreciate your home when you're so used to having it right there for you to enjoy. I hope to travel to Mexico one day :) Greetings from Germany!
Hi Anna! I am glad to see that some other people feel identified with this situation and as you say it is difficult to appreciate what we have (as we take it for granted) but now that we are conscious about it is a good time to challenge our paradigms ! Happy travels to you and hopefully we will have you in Mexico some day soon! Cheers!
Just got back from a fantastic trip to Mexico City and am still trying to learn more! Thanks for sharing more notes
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Hey Kyle! Thanks for your comments. I went to check your blog and I can tell that you had an amazing experience here in Mexico ! I am so happy to see how travels can help us to have a better understanding of the world we live in! Keep it up
PS. Great pictures!
Cheers!
I love Mexico! I'm glad you are gaining a new appreciation for your home country! http://ourpassportpages.com/
Hello Danielle!
Yes I am definitely learning a great deal of things about Mexico as a whole. I am glad that you love my country and that you had the chance to experience it :)
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and congratulations on your blog! it is always rewarding to exchange with other travelers around the globe!
Cheers!